Thank you for your letter. I know exactly how hard it can be to know which gender you are attracted to. And if you have never been in love before then it can be hard to tell if you’re in love or not, especially when it is one of your best friends. Who you are with, all the time. You cry together, talk about hard times and problems in the family and school and have a lot of fun together. And sometimes you maybe even sleep in the same bed. And I know that a lot of people and especially young people have or have had the same thoughts.
My best advice to you is to talk with someone about it. It could be one of your best friends or family. But if you can’t tell someone you know about it that’s okay. Even so it’s my best advice to you because it can give you peace and you don’t have to hide it. You can also call GLBT and talk with other young people like you who are just as confused and frustrated as you are.
Then you can maybe get some advice or see that you’re not the only one who has those thoughts and it’s okay to be confused, it’s the only way to learn. And that you have those thoughts only shows that you are thinking about what you want and not just do what other people think are right and that’s only a good thing to be able to. It’s not everyone who can do that. Many are scared to be different and just ignore the fact that they are. But it’s good to be yourself and do whatever you want.
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