To begin with, I want to say that I am very sorry for your loss. It is a tragedy, and you have every right to be devastated, and I won’t tell you to get over it, because some people never fully will. And therefore, it is okay to cry, and it is okay to get angry sometimes. You need to stop listening to what other people tell you, and I know that it might be hard, but it won’t do you any good. And I feel you. They are probably trying to comfort you by saying those things, and I get that it is hard to see it that way, but you need to trust that they are not saying those things, to hurt you on purpose.
You are telling me that both your husband and your friends are suggesting to give it another try. But in a situation like this, I think that it is really important to figure out what you feel. If you rush into a decision that you are far from comfortable in, it can course some serious trouble. But again, you are stating that your reason for your doubt, is that you are not ready to face the disappointment one more time. And if your biggest wish is to get that baby, I think that you should seize the day, without thinking too much of what might happen. I know that it can be tough, but a motto that always gets me through is: If you never try, you will never know. Maybe all you need is time.
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