Vanskeligheden ved at sige nej

It is harder to say no than it sounds. Because it’s different what you should say no to. It is also different because it could be dangerous or not, it could also be stupid or not. But it is also different about it is you friends or your parents you must say no to. If my parents tell me I must do something, it's hard to say no directly, but easy to fail to do it. But if they ask me about I want some places, it is not hard to say no because it is something they offer me, nothing I need. But it’s hard to say no to my friends, if they want to go to a party and they ask about I want to go with them. That’s hard because I play handball, and can’t take to a party the day before, it’s very difficult, because what if something happens I will miss. But if I go to a party with my friends, and one of my friends asking about I would try drugs with him, it is not hard to say no. It’s not hard to say no because I’m very afraid of drugs. But one thing is very hard to say no to, is love. You can’t say no to love because no matter how you are as a person, there will always be something you love. But it is always difficult to say no if it is someone you love, it can also be one of your family. For me it is hard to say no to one I love, because the person means a lot for me. People who mean something for me, is hard to say no to because I don’t want to disappoint or hurt them. But if you love a girl and all your friends said that you should keep away from her because she is not a girl for you, I would not listen to them. I would say no, I love her and no I will not drop her, just because you think anything is possible. I has no problems to say no to all persons, but don’t if it are a person I love. The most difficult choice where I should said no was when I should said no to my old girlfriend or my best friends 18 birthdays party. It was a difficult choice because I want both things. So it is not always easy to said no, but sometimes it is very easy.