Unge ægteskaber: årsager og konsekvenser

Why did I choose this topic?i’ve chose this topic because i wanted to learn a little more about young marriages and why they get married so early. And my grandmother was married early.Start:When you are young, you tend to act first before you think. It is also very hard to control new found emotions.

The problem about young marriages is when you wanna end it its hard, it isn’t easy to get out from a marriage. Why is it bad to get married that early?It’s like what i said before, when you are young you tend to act before you think and you make a lot of mistakes. The most of time you get married because you think that he or she is the only one, but, it is very hard to control new found emotions and most of the time when the marriages get to much you end it. And afterwards you will probably regret it, because it is very expensive, i do understand the parents would not let their child's get married but when the child insistere, there isn't much to do. Why do they get married in that age?The main reason is, when you are a child or not so young, you will remember all the love stories you've heard about everything is good and there is nothing bad, and that's the problem, love is coated with the fantasy that reality cannot simulate, then you get disappointed for not being a part of a love story and then what ? Break up Why does young marriages doesn't last that long?I’ve made a little research and it turns out that the main reason young couples leave each other, is the disappointment of not being in a love story, the real world is not the same as in a fairy tale, and when the partner ain't givin you what you want, what do you do ? You find another, infidelity, the main reason young couples break up, i think it's kind of sad, when you arrange a marriage and after like half a year when you find out your partner wasn't what you were searching for then you just go find another, love is not like a store you do not just pick another when you've already bought it. Love and marriages is not something to play with and some people need to understand.Luckily for us all young marriages has been falling the last years but there is still some countries in africa were over 60 % of childs under 18 get married Unluckily i could not find the number for england but here in denmark 6% of child's under 18 get married, at first at saw that 6% here in denmark did it and i thought that was much but after looking a little around on the internet i found the number 60% in some cities in africa, and i must say i'm surprised, it's over half of the child's under 18 there gets married, insane if you ask me. If it stood to me you should make a age limit on at least 25. because for some people it is too early, my one grandmother was married when she was 19, and i asked her what she felt about back there and what she think of it now, back then,it was actually pretty normal to get married in that age she said, the boy she married was a year older than her, and back then if you married an older guy, you would get respect and the did. Back then it was cool to say you were married but now, now i do think that some people are afraid of saying it, and that's what i don't understand, why do you get married if you don't wanna tell the whole world about it, a marriages is some on of the biggest moments in your life, if it is with the right. Actually my grandmother kept that man for 30 years so something has been right, but she also told me, when she look back on it now, she would have waited maybe 5 or 10 years.