Arrangerede ægteskaber: en personlig refleksion

I don’t know if it’s positive or negative in my eyes, I think it’s a bit both. A very negative thing about arranged marriages it’s they way to “banish” love, of cause a couple can love each other, but I think the love in a arranged marriage is popping up a year or maybe few years in the marriage. I’m satisfied that we have no arranged marriages in Denmark because of that reason. I would not like to marriage a girl and then find out that she’s a bitch. I do also thing that female in the arranged marriage have a much bigger chance to be raped or being beaten by her husband, then a female in a normal love marriage. I don’t mean that people that believe in this kind of marriages are more aggressive then European people, I just think that it’s more difficult to a female to be divorced in a very religion society. Just because of there family and all about honorary homicide. A good thing about this kind of marriages could be that we don’t hear that much about couple that divorce, but we live in a part of the world where not that many marriages are arranged. Another positive thing, in my eyes, could be that not many people will live alone, without a wife or a husband. If you look at Denmark where some people live alone, and if think about all the peoples that die in there home and no one find out they’re dead. It’s a good think about arranged marriages. I do not know if I mean it’s a good or a bad thing, because it has some positive effects and just a very bad thing, the “banished” love. I don’t either like think about that your future are coordinated by your parents, and you have to live as they say. I would not like my parents to coordinate my life, or just take choose who I am going to marriage. All in all am I glade to live in Denmark with a normal love marriage!