I have a great relationship with my parents, or that’s what I think. I don’t exactly know how I would describe a healthy and good relationship. For me I would probably to be able to speak to your parents about both good and bad stuff. Felling accepted as a teenager is really important. So many things are going through your head. Felling like you need to be and act a certain, is really hard. The good grades in school, thinking of the future, looking the best possible way. I think what typically goes wrong in “normal” relationships between teens and parents is the communication and acceptances. From both sides. As a parent I can imagen it would be hard seeing your kid growing up, and suddenly not being home as much. As a teen, it´s important to gain trust with your parents. To be able to go out at night and be with your friends. To not fell like a disappointment because you get a B. I think a lot of those things can be achieved by talking, communicate and talk better and/or more.
I think the typical relationship between teenager and adult is extremely polished. Parents normally want their kid/kids to do good. And that really easily become an expectation to do good and be good. To be able to be the someone your parents can talk about with friends, and almost brag about. I think that should change.
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